tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268967799098952709.post6223126175553313708..comments2023-08-07T11:44:36.604+01:00Comments on Forever Wandering: Thoughts Like Fumes, ReallyAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10029689159734954944noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2268967799098952709.post-64845282397503850492008-11-23T19:49:00.000+00:002008-11-23T19:49:00.000+00:00Hey I have been reading your blogg! i think your r...Hey I have been reading your blogg! i think your rantings are is interesting, but i wonder if some of your anger is misplaced. I have had a wide variety of figure shapes and relationships over the years and couldn't find any correlation between my body and my self worth. but i do know the fear that sets in when your body doesn't listen to you and you feel out of control.<BR/><BR/>What i ment to say is judgeing other people for their looks and judging yourself in relation to them does no one justice, the more energy you feed into those thought the smaller and more diminished your temple is.<BR/><BR/>Also Be very weary of womenn as victims is easy to confuse sexuality and sexism, especially when some people with overt and coarse sexual expression can be so invasive.<BR/><BR/>I have some very good friends that are strippers, I live in Los Angeles and there is an awful lot of sex industry out here. Lot of beautiful super smart girls place their self esteem in the shape of their bodies, and come out feeling exactly the way you do right now. It is something that confuses me terribly. You don't love someone for the car they drive so why could you judge their vessel. <BR/><BR/>One of my best friends has a "fat girl mentality" She is curvey but not fat, I think she is beautiful and vastly amazing, but she is always willing to bargain for poorer treatment in exchange for attention, and she is fiercely jealous and its a little scary and therefore not attractive. not so ironicly she winds up with guys who are willing to give her attention if they can take more liberties with her and are also more likely to cheat. So basicly she is really shallow and surrounds herself with men that treat her the way she treats herself.<BR/><BR/>now I'm totally rambling. I wish for you, that you will focus on your health and not your weight, and use your body for pleasure, and your mind for understanding. And for you to walk forward and explore all things in life with the tools you are given and try to understand how things are instead of how they are not.<BR/><BR/>Do not be afraid to disappoint others to follow your own happiness. That is the hardest task i will ever learn (if i do that is)<BR/><BR/>:DTherin Brookshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09643015990857078798noreply@blogger.com